Today, I read an article where a woman who is now a feminist has decided she will never cook for a man again. Her reasoning is that during her previous marriage, she was always doing the cooking and cleaning and was effectively keeping a scorecard, which is what feminist do.
In the article, she gives a little bit of story on what was going on. When she originally married him he was the only one working and she was not. So she was cooking meals for him and doing the cleaning. Then she talks about how she got a job, but she actually spent most of her time skipping out on it and going to the gym instead of working. Only to be upset that she was still expected to cook and clean.
See, this is the problem with feminist. It is that they only keep score when it is things that they feel they’re doing more. Where they are wanting to do less while demanding the other do more. They do this while not offering to do more in other areas that they do less work in that their partner does more in. It’s always about them (orthe female sex).
It’s like how they complain there are not enough female CEO’s running companies. Complaining about how there are more males instead as if there’s some kind of conspiracy. However, you don’t hear them complaining about how we need more female working in underground sewage tunnels which are male-dominated. Instead, they are silent.
Same goes for the family. They never ask for equality where they say, “you know maybe I’ll be the one to do the over time. that way you can stay home and relax.” Or say, “Let me spend the afternoon repairing the car, so you can relax and watch TV.” So, despite how this is expected of the man, they don’t complain. They only demand they do less and the man does more.
Don’t get me started on how men are even expected to take a bullet for their wives or give up their spot on the life raft. If you expect someone to die for you, then don’t complain about doing the dishes.
This is what feminism has done. This is why most people who are for equality, reject being called a feminist. Because, by its actions and words is about one group, females. It’s equality for women at the expense of men and boys and it is destroying marriages and families.
I’m my house, we complement each other. We don’t compete.
I work 40+ Luz 32 to 36 hours. This gives her more time, so she comes home early and helps our son with his homework. She can’t cook, so I do all the cooking. However, she does the dishes. I do all the shopping, paying the bills, taking out the trash, yard work and car repairs. She keeps the house clean, decorated and organizes.
There is no scorecard between us. At least I am not keeping one. To me, we are on the same team. Working together. And that’s one reason I think that is why we been married for 10 years. Because it’s not a competition for us.
Feminism however puts the husband at odds with his wife because it’s so one sided, making her bitter. No successful marriage can work this way.
So don’t do what the feminists do, get rid of that scorecard. at least if you want your marriage to be successful.